The Shared Playlist: How Music Connects a Team, in the Office or Remote

Ask someone about the song that takes them straight back to being sixteen, and watch their face change. Music is one of the oldest ways people bond, and most workplaces have quietly made it private: everyone in their own headphones, in their own world.

A shared playlist brings a little of it back. It costs nothing, everyone gets a say, and it starts conversations that a team-building day can't force. Here's what the research says, and how to make it work in an office, at a workbench, or across a team that never shares a room.

What the research says

Music won't fix a broken culture, but there's good evidence that shared music nudges people towards each other:

• Upbeat music, more cooperation. In experiments at Cornell, people who heard happy, upbeat music were more likely to cooperate in a group game than people who heard unhappy music or none at all (Kniffin and others, Journal of Organizational Behavior).
• Moving in time, working together. Groups who sang or moved in time with each other cooperated more afterwards than groups who didn't (Wiltermuth and Heath, Psychological Science, 2009).
• The ice-breaker effect. Strangers in adult singing classes felt close to each other faster than strangers in craft or creative writing classes (Pearce, Launay and Dunbar, Royal Society Open Science, 2015).
• Shared taste, shared values. People who learn they like the same music tend to see each other as having similar values, and that helps them get along (Boer and others, Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 2011).
• Music you choose, better work. In a study of software developers, mood and quality of work were at their lowest when people couldn't listen to music they'd chosen (Lesiuk, Psychology of Music, 2005).

The common thread: music works best when it's shared and chosen, not imposed. That's the difference between a shared playlist and one person's radio station.

Why a playlist builds rapport

Every song someone adds is a small story about them. "My dad played this every Sunday." "This was our song at uni." People ask about it, and suddenly the quiet person in accounts and the loud one in sales have something to talk about that isn't the quarterly numbers.

It also gives everyone the same amount of say. The new starter's three songs count as much as the boss's. For a team that's still getting to know each other, that's a gentle way in.

In the office, the workshop or the shop floor

Shared music works best with a few simple rules everyone agrees on:

• Everyone adds, nobody owns it. Give each person the same number of songs, say three or five, so no one takes over.
• Pick the moments. Friday afternoon, the morning set-up, the end-of-month push or the clean-up. Not all day, every day.
• Respect headphones. Some people need quiet to focus. The playlist is an invitation, not a rule.
• Keep it right for the room. If customers can hear it, or there are young people on the team, agree on what's suitable.
• Rotate a DJ of the week. One person picks the order and says a line about why. It's a small spotlight people enjoy.

It works at workstations too. Kitchens, salons, workshops, warehouses and cafés have always run on music. Making it a shared list rather than whoever grabbed the speaker first changes the mood more than you'd think.

For remote and hybrid teams

Remote teams lose the small, unplanned moments: the song someone hums, the "who's this?" across the desk. A shared playlist puts one back:

• Before the monthly catch-up, everyone adds two or three songs. Play a few seconds of one at the start of the call and ask whose it is.
• Song of the week. One person shares a song and one sentence on why. It takes a minute and people look forward to it.
• Across time zones, a shared list is perfect: people add songs whenever suits them, and everyone can listen on their own time.
• For a new starter, ask them to add their three songs in their first week. It's an easy first conversation.

For the work party

The end-of-year party is where a shared playlist shines. Collect songs from everyone in the weeks before, so the night has something for the whole room, then lock the list before the party so there are no surprises on the night.

How to do it with AUX (free)

We built AUX for exactly this. It's free, and no one needs an account:

1. Start a playlist and give it a name, such as "Friday arvo" or "Christmas party".
2. Choose how many songs each person gets: 3, 5 or 10.
3. Send one link or show the QR code. Everyone adds their songs, with their name next to each one.
4. Watch the night fill up: 3 hours to start, and more hours are free.
5. Set a start time and the list locks for everyone else an hour before.
6. Stuck for ideas? Tap Ideas for ready-made lists for work, teens, kids and classics.

On the day, play it in Apple Music or Spotify.

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The short version

• Shared music helps people feel closer, cooperate more and find things in common.
• It works when everyone gets an equal say, and nobody is forced to listen.
• In the office, pick the moments. For remote teams, make it a ritual.
• For the work party, collect everyone's songs early and lock the list before the night.